unfair!

Why is it that it is a given that straight men think lesbians are hot, yet a straight woman who thinks gay guys are hot is weird? i know that i am not alone in the world, thinking that gay guys are hot together, but the only place other women will admit this is online (i mean just look at the percentage of female slash fiction writers). i have never met another woman in real life that is willing to admit that. Why is this? Is it because it is only socially acceptable for men to have sexual fantasies?but for a woman to openly admit that she has a sex drive and sexual fantasies or god forbid a kink is abnormal or a slut. 

Talk about gender inequality!!